Lessons from My First Year

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Looking back on the past year, I'm struck by how much has changed. Here are some of the most important lessons I've learned.

1. Ask Questions Early and Often

I used to worry that asking too many questions would make me look incompetent. What I've learned is the opposite: asking thoughtful questions shows you're engaged and trying to understand deeply.

The key is asking good questions:

  • Questions that show you've done your homework
  • Questions that clarify assumptions
  • Questions that help you understand the "why" behind decisions

2. Progress Over Perfection

I'm a recovering perfectionist. I used to spend hours polishing work that was already good enough, when I should have been moving on to the next challenge.

This year taught me to:

  • Ship early and iterate based on feedback
  • Distinguish between work that needs to be perfect and work that needs to be done
  • Remember that "done" is better than "perfect but never finished"

3. Build Relationships Intentionally

Your network isn't just about what you can get from others - it's about building genuine relationships with people you respect and enjoy working with.

Some practical ways I've done this:

  • Regular coffee chats with colleagues
  • Staying in touch with former colleagues
  • Contributing to communities I care about

4. Take Care of Yourself

Burnout is real, and it's not a badge of honor. This year I learned to:

  • Set boundaries around work hours
  • Take time off without guilt
  • Invest in hobbies and relationships outside of work

Looking Ahead

These lessons feel obvious in hindsight, but they took a year of experience to truly internalize. I'm excited to see what the next year brings and what new lessons I'll learn.

What were your biggest lessons from your first year in a new role or endeavor? I'd love to hear about them.